Dr Nicolya Williams

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Misconceptions about Confidence

 Did you know there are multiple myths about confidence that can affect you? If you want to strengthen your self-esteem, then it’s important to eliminate these misconceptions and focus on reality. Learn more about these myths:   

  1. Myth 1: Success is necessary for confidence. Although success can give your confidence a boost, it’s not a requirement to have it.

 

  • You can have confidence without great success.

 

  • It’s important to take note of small accomplishments. Even simple things like making your bed every day or listening to a friend’s troubles have value.

 

  • In fact, experts share that in order for you reach the highest levels of success, you need to have confidence first. You can start small and watch it grow over time with new goals being reached.

 

  1. Myth 2: Only extroverts can be confident. You can be an introvert and still have high confidence levels.

 

  • There are extroverts who aren’t confident.

 

  • Being an extrovert or an introvert isn’t the reason why you have or lack confidence. There are other factors involved.

 

  • It’s not necessary to be an extrovert to have confidence. You don’t have to be the center of attention or attend every party to get noticed. Confidence is internal and depends on your thoughts.

 

  1. Myth 3: You have to be confident all the time. The truth is that confidence levels can go up and down.

 

  • You don’t have to be confident every hour of every day.

 

  • Your self-esteem will change and fluctuate over time. According to experts, this is normal and not something to be concerned about.

 Confidence myths can inhibit your progress and hurt your self-esteem. You don’t have to believe these myths anymore. Leave them behind and start building greater confidence today!