I wasted my time, how do I get over that?
After dedicating yourself totally to our relationship and then it ends you deal with a lot of emotions.
One question that I get often is "how can I get over the fact that I wasted so much time and there’s nothing other than pain to show for it?".
I must be honest, I grappled with this thought for quite some time. I was beyond angry because I felt like I lost not only myself in my marriage, but I lost all of the time and love I invested.
The truth is it wasn’t waste of time if you dedicated your true self to the relationship. And to be totally honest, who's to say that something would have been better in place of it? We cannot put all of our energy into the bitter, angry and frustrated emotion that comes with holding on to resentment of wasted time.
In my most recent video, I share how you can get over the time wasted concept and incorporate new thinking instead.
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