I talk to people every day who have gone through a divorce and beat themselves up because of the way that they handled it.

I decided today I wanted to share my biggest mistakes when going through my divorce and what I learned from this experience.

The first mistake l made was I allowed the divorce to define me.
The second mistake was I sat in silence and shame avoiding getting help.
The third mistake I made was I avoided truly processing my feelings.

While I could sit here and beat myself up for not handling everything perfectly I’m actually excited that I messed up and excited that I made a mistake because from my setbacks I was able to find my success and from this painful experience I was able to find my purpose.

So if you’re experiencing shame or questioning how you handled your divorce look no more. We all make mistakes but it’s only a failure if you don’t learn and adjust accordingly.

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