Do you ever hope and pray and wish that the people around you will change? You pray, beg and plead with them to change.

But no matter how hard you try to make them change it just seems like it never happens. In turn, you end up frustrated angry or irritated with their lack of desire to change.

Before you know it the energy that you were putting into trying to force someone to change is the energy that you’re taking away from changing your life.

Ultimately we cannot control anyone other than ourselves. Watch this video to learn why it’s important to keep your focus on you instead of expending unnecessary energy trying to force others to change.