I used to be that girl.

Always reading to the next best personal development books, attending the most life-changing conferences, and signing up for all high-end coaching programs.

I figured the more time, money, and energy I invested the easier I could piece my way to the success I desired.

I literally wanted change and growth in the worst way and I assumed the more I learned the more likely I could make this happen!

I thought the more I hustled, juggled and learned the closer I would be to my desired life.

Deep down I believed that if I just did enough of the tactics set out in the personal development world I could become who I really wanted to be and live the life I really wanted to live.

But the further I dug the more what I desired seemed to be fleeting.

The harder I tried and the more effort I exerted the more exhausted and defeated I felt….

At one point I had a coach tell me… “ Dr. Nicolya you have done all that you should do, but honestly you’re in your own way and it’s your beliefs”.

Because I am a lifelong learner I started to deeply study mindset and I LOVED IT. It transformed my entire life .

You see we often try to effort our way to success

We follow what the gurus say and we mediate, journal, hope, wish and wait but I got news boo the success you desire and deserve isn’t coming from desperation or hustle

It comes from intentionally aligning your mind to receive it

I learned through my journey that you could have all of the systems strategies and support in the world, but if your mind isn’t aligned none of that will matter.

You first have to believe what you desire is available for you because it is!

Here is a secret I need you to know: Life should actually be SPECTACULAR and life should actually be ENJOYABLE! We aren’t supposed to be struggling, being frustrated, confused, and overwhelmed all through life.

This isn't what God wanted for you and it's not why He created you.

Sadly you're likely normalizing this because that is what we are taught to do.

Think about it... when you leave it up to society they tell you that you need to have a college degree, a job paying at least 50k a year, 2.5 kids, an amazing spouse, a home with a white picket fence, and a dog.

And when you do achieve that you should be happy.

But that American dream isn’t everyone’s dream.

And living out someone else's dream will NEVER make you truly happy.

So hold your hand on your heart and ask yourself “what is it that I deeply desire?” Deep inside my soul I know I am supposed to be doing….”

If there were no restrictions, red tape, or rules.

What would it be? You already know, but you have been scared to admit it!

Well… it’s safe to share it out loud with yourself now.

This is your official call to stop playing small.

It’s time to think JUMP outside of that box and live the life you’re DESIGNED to live

Together let’s make it happen.