Do you feel like your divorce has knocked you on your butt?

Do you feel like your divorce has taken a toll on your overall well-being?

Are you struggling with making sense of life with the way things are going?

When I was going through my divorce I had to learn to dig deep to learn more of who I truly was.  I felt like I lost myself.

I mean who was I without a title?

Who was I as a single? 

Was I ever going to be lovable?

Was something wrong with me?

I am sure these are all questions you're wondering about as well.

It is easy in the midst of chaos and change to lose yourself.

Sadly, it is tempting to negotiate your value and wear down on your self-esteem….but that’s no good. 

You likely spent a good deal of your relationship trying to be something you weren’t.

During your marriage, you probably made some accommodations and compromises for the sake of the relationship.

And now you’re left trying to decide who you are below the things you pretended to be.

This can be one of the most difficult parts of the process causing you to want to give up altogether.

I mean after it all is said and done you’re left with a little resemblance of life as you once knew it.

Then you begin to wonder if life will ever make sense

Will you always hate yourself and your decisions?

Will you always be unable to move forward?

Most people wonder ...why do some people farewell after a divorce and others struggle.

The answer is simple yet profound.

You can either commit to being happy or you can commit to feeling sorry for yourself.

You can either commit to being a victim of your circumstances or you can commit to making the change.

You can commit to whining or you can commit to doing the work.

You can either commit to pretending to be okay and putting on a facade or you can commit to prioritizing self-love and restoring your life.

I'm just being REAL!